" It is, what it is"

I have a habit of saying "it is, what it is" when I no longer can effect the change of the outcome of a particular situation. I don't have a problem seeing things to the end, and I give up even if things get hard, but I know how to stop myself before I get obsessive. I think that when we fixate on a certain outcome or thing we want, we are blocking the real outcome, or the ultimate reason for the situation. I have had some pretty disappointing experiences in my life, but I wouldn't change a thing. The journey through the disappointments have created friends I wouldn't have met, ambitions I didn't know I had, and enlightenment that would have not been exposed so early in my lifetime.

I recieve gifts daily!

Nature fuels my soul